Also, I was told that the memorial actually resembles a satanic ritual of denying the body and blood of christ. REALLY!?
No I haven't heard that one. I attended over 30 memorials. The're not a lot different from other meetings, apart from the wine/bread and the bigger attendance.
You seem to want to hear both sides, in order to make a clear decision.Please dont ever change.
I commend you for that. And indeed, the decision is only yours to make, and here at least you will be respected for your decsion.
However, you probably realise that the jws do not listen to both sides: "not even eating with such a man".
Have you heard that expression?
Maybe you could ask your friend:
How many jehovah's witnesses are disfellowshipped each year? answer >70000.
Why are they disfellowshipped? ( Dont accept for an answer " because they dont love God etc. Get concrete reasons.
How are they treated by jehovahs witnesses afterwards?
How do you feel about that?
Do you know anyone who's been disfellowshipped?
How do you treat them?
How does that make you feel?
Dont be surprised if your friend becomes uneasy.
You will find lots of horror stories if you brouse the forum. Believe me, they are not made up.
Good luck on lifes journey roxanesophia